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"Our son, Jacob, at the age of 17, traveled to Nepal and Tibet with a program called Passages in 2001. He wrote things like ‘my eyes have been opened' or 'I am now walking down the road with all the ordinary people, cows, chickens, goats, monks and an occasional ascetic.' His comments, only, can do justice to the remarkable experience Passages provided for him. For three months he moved from a comfortable, indulgent, middle class, North American home to home stays with Nepali and Tibetan families. Some of the homes were primitive and all of the homes had no familiar cultural, linguistic or family patterns. He had to draw from his own internal resources, new ways of dealing with everything around him. He had doting Nepali and Tibetan teachers. As parents of a boy who had not traveled alone before, we worried unnecessarily and incessantly. The Program leaders kept us updated and Jacob would frequently email with poetic stories. He sent pictures showing how he had gained attractive weight! Prior to his experience with the Passage Project Jacob had been a dependent son (or he had an overly involved mother), he was a rebellious adolescent and a disinterested student. From our parent point of view Jacob’s experiences with the Passage Program in Nepal and Tibet were indescribably challenging, beautiful, and transformative. He returned from Nepal, thoughtful, self-motivated, (mother had to back off) and caring, particularly toward the underprivileged. He has gone on to anthropology major at Reed College in Portland, Oregon and will be applying to medical school. He has returned to Nepal three times and speaks the language fluently. An addendum includes that we, the parents, are currently enjoying a sabbatical, teaching in Dharan, Nepal (academic year 2007-8)."
- Sandy and Fred Connell
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